The new Mastodon (3.4.1) lets me see other instances that ttw isn't federating with, either due to temporary or (presumed) permanent problems.
And in the four years since this started, there's been a _lot_ of instances lost
My initial reaction was driven by fear: how can I prevent this? I have backups and snapshots, but I'm the only person with access to anything. I could use ssss to share a password between several people I trust, or deputize someone ...
I was even thinking about putting some money -- enough for server fees for a year or two -- into a non profit org and transferring ttw to that.
In the end, I think the right way for me to think about it is that communities are _not_ permanent, they are more than the servers and the AWS accounts or whatever -- some of those instances lost data, some had instance drama, some had admins who just went "fuck it" and some just didn't survive in the cambrian explosion of social networking.
When irc.iol.ie shutdown, most of the regulars from there had moved to chat.phishy.net already -- but I still felt that maybe some old-timer who had gone away for a months and come back would not know, and we'd lose them to the community forever.
Then I didn't log on to phishy.net for weeks, then months, then years, and finally it's now gone -- given that its whole community effectively migrated away, it must have just been a burden for the admins.
I think Facebook and other modern social networking has given me as "gotta catch em all" philosophy. It's so easy to "collect" all the people I've know in life; on Twitter, on LinkedIn and on Facebook -- back when I used it -- but I wasn't doing any of the work to maintain those relationships.
When I left FB I thought I'd lose touch with some of those people forever. I probably have. Is it so bad that I no longer know how to contact someone from my primary school I haven't spoke to in 30 years?
@insom saaame. i miss a handful of them
but if i really missed them so much i'd make time for a real email or phone conversation
i'd make time to build a facebook alternative they might use
if they really missed me they'd make a tiny effort to recognize how bad facebook is
and even if zuck were both human and nice, and facebook were a non profit, communicating with those old friends would still not be worth the insufferable ads, bad takes, unexamined political opinions, toxic family